Law 4: Always say less than necessary

On a personal level, this law is my worst nightmare. I transgress it on a daily basis. Everything is an opportunity to move my lips and open my mouth.  During a long time, I thought that was the best thing to do. However, I realized that I was mistaken. On every part of life, say too much is wrong. 

Professionally, it closes doors and creates tensions between co-workers. You want to say what you think to appease a situation and at the end you are considered as a scapegoat and suffer from your own words. In a family, knowledge is necessary to understand and accept each others. However talking to much about others is like twisting the knife in a wound, talking too much about yourself is like boring people and constantly giving our opinion on other members’ life never solve any family issues.

On a relationship level, talking too much is the worst thing to do too. More you talk, more you become weak and powerless, as the other one knows exactly what you think and can easily counteract. At the end, I think a relationship is a perfect training field to learn why and how to keep your mouth shut.


Xanga has become harder to use now. haha I haven't used Xanga for so long. Everything has changed. anyways I hope everyone is doing fine. I am still taking sessions at UCDavis and finals are coming up. well I need to go now. I will post more about my life later. Time to study!